Being born a human being is never a mistake. Having a terrible mindset always is.
We assume that the in order to be successful we need to have the sense of belonging.
Not only that, we think that in order to belong we need to be understood, accepted and appreciated by others (fit in).
We assumed that the planet (not only the planet, the whole universe) won’t accept us unless we fit in, unless we do something about ourselves that will make us deserving, worthy of acceptance.